Why Unasked Favors Build Bonds
Unasked favors show you're thinking about others without obligation. The surprise element makes it more meaningful.
Unasked kindness creates stronger bonds than requested help
Anticipatory service builds trust
Small favors trigger reciprocity
Proactive help signals investment in their wellbeing
How to Do Thoughtful Favors
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Notice small needs
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Do something you know they dislike
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Anticipate needs before they arise
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Keep it small - big favors feel awkward
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Don't announce it or seek credit
Impact of Small Kindness
Creates culture of mutual support
Shows you're paying attention
Triggers reciprocal helpfulness
Builds reputation as thoughtful