Why Going First Matters
Greeting first sets the emotional tone for the interaction. It shows confidence, warmth, and that you're glad to see them.
First words set emotional tone for entire interaction
Warm greetings activate social bonding hormones
Initiating creates perception of confidence and friendliness
Greeting warmly primes both for positive exchange
How to Greet Warmly
1
Make eye contact and smile before speaking
2
Say their name: 'Hey Sarah!' not just 'hey'
3
Add warmth: 'Good to see you!'
4
Be the first - don't wait
5
Match energy to situation
Benefits of Warm Greetings
Takes control of interaction energy positively
Makes you memorable and likeable
Reduces social awkwardness
Shows confidence and social grace