Why Positive Observations Matter
Sharing positive observations proves you're paying attention and looking for the good. It helps people see themselves positively and creates upward spiral of positivity.
Positive observation sharing increases self-esteem
Being noticed for positives reinforces good behaviors
Positive focus creates optimistic relationship tone
Observation sharing builds intimacy through attention
How to Share Observations Well
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Notice one positive thing: improvement, effort, quality
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Share it directly
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Keep it specific and genuine
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Don't add 'but' or criticism after
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Share observations about process, not just outcomes
Impact of Noticing Good
Trains you to see positive in people
Helps others see their own positive growth
Creates optimistic, supportive atmosphere
Reinforces good behaviors