Validate a feeling with “That makes sense” ✓ Copied!

"Show empathy and understanding by validating someone's feelings as reasonable and acceptable."

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Power of Emotional Validation

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Validation doesn't mean agreement - it means acknowledging someone's feelings as understandable. This creates safety, reduces defensiveness, and allows emotional processing.

Emotional validation reduces emotional intensity 40%

Validation creates psychological safety and trust

Accepted feelings process faster than suppressed ones

'That makes sense' is one of the most powerful therapeutic phrases

How to Validate Feelings

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Listen to their feeling without judging

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Say calmly: 'That makes sense' or 'That's understandable'

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Don't immediately try to fix or minimize

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Let validation stand alone before problem-solving

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You don't have to agree, just acknowledge it's reasonable

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What Validation Creates

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Creates immediate calming effect

Makes people feel heard and understood

Reduces emotional escalation

Builds trust and psychological safety

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